Yea, I'm guilty at times, but most of us would not be on this forum if we weren't tinkering with details. Sometime its just fun for me to obsess, other times, I just relax, sit back and enjoy the music and lyrics.
It's taken me years and years to get the balance back from critical listening to primarily enjoying the music once more.
Funnily enough I've also gradually shifted a little from being predominantly a lyrics first man at the same time.
Of course you're right, we wouldn't be here if we didn't deeply care about the sound.
I still check the sound quality when buying anything from a smart TV to a smartphone.
From a laptop to PC speakers.
From headphones to portable speakers.
From vacuum cleaners to washing machines - ok, maybe not the SQ but certainly the dB noise levels.
One of my friends has just replaced his Arcam 7 amp with an Arcam 8r and wants me to have a listen.
Kind of puts me in a dilemma because if I can't hear a difference, I'm sure he's going to be disappointed.
(Perish the thought it might actually sound worse!).
Hmmm...I wonder how many spouses have been put into similar situations?
Anyway, I'm not too worried as I recall the 8r getting some favourable reviews back in the day. It might not sound much better but it certainly shouldn't sound any worse.
Anyway, I hope you can always enjoy your audio journey.