I can't say which of the above will mate the best with your JMLab's, however, I purchased a REL Storm III (used for $1100, delivered) to mate with my Maggie 3.6R's. It works beautifully. The REL has wonderful musicality and does not, and never has, drawn attention to itself. Hook it up, and boom, you have real extension in the bottom! I drive my maggies full range, so the sub just supplements the bottom (probably the same thing you'll be doing). I have only heard 1 sub that used an active xover that didn't damage the sound (that was the subs that come with the Pipedreams).
My advise (for what it's worth) is that there's no xover, like NO XOVER!
Go to audioreview.com and read some more comments on the REL Storm III sub there. I think for the money you simply can't beat it. I am very happy with mine.
Good Luck!