I had the same experience with the XTi60's and could not mitigate the brightness. Good ribbon tweeters cost money and quality can vary a lot. The ML's are perhaps a bit too much of a bargain.
I found the RAAL tweeters in the Ascend Towers to have a similar footprint and much better performance. I recommend Ascend.
https://ascendacoustics.com/products/elx-tower-pair?variant=40602626916406