Seller asked for PayPal fees after the sale. Should I pay them or not?


I recently purchased an item and after accepting my offer the seller asked for PayPal fees (3%). I checked the listing and nothing was listed in the ad about my paying the fees.  I have already payed half the fee but I'm not sure if I should have paid the full amount. Changing the deal after accepting the offer feels wrong to me. Looking for guidance.
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Showing 2 responses by gdnrbob

OP, you say you have already paid half the Ppal fee.
If so, and the original listing didn't mention anything regarding Ppal fees. Then, I think the seller should be gracious enough to accept what he has been paid-Even more gracious to refund you the fees you have paid.
I know sometimes I have made a mistake in a listing, but I always try to make thing right.
A Paypal fee is only 3%, so unless it is for a huge sum, then the amount should be something any reasonable person could afford to eat.
Ebm, the whole point is that the seller neglected to mention the fees.
The OP (buyer) isn't being a cheapskate, just nonplussed that the seller is asking for the fees after he received payment.

I guess the OP as 2 choices:
Either ask for his money back and cancel the deal.
Or,
Pay the fees and be done with it.

Though, if it were me, before doing anything, I would contact Audiogon and ask them what they feel is appropriate in this situation.
I also hope the seller is following this thread. I would like to hear his/her version of the story.- Just to be fair.
Miscommunication happens. It would be nice if both parties could come to an agreement.