I think culture, background and training are at play here. Those deeply engrained in the scientific and engineering communities are disciplined to defend their positions with hard data. It’s part of the culture and for valid reasons, when the goal is to prevent airplanes from falling out of the sky, for example. Those among us who have developed highly sensitive "antennas" to various audio phenomena and emassed a farily extensive vocabulary to relate those observations to others are quite comfortable sans data. Attempts to minimize the attachment of data to subjective audio experiences often frustrates data-driven individuals. It’s understandable. You can’t blame a compass for pointing north.
There are no "good guys" or "bad guys" here. A little intellectual humility is a great way to begin (and, end) a conversation.
Good post, Erik. It’s been a pleasure reading the comments.