Well, I do relate to your conundrum. It's funny, I have vehemently enforced, to my kids, not passing out personal info. and addresses to total strangers on the net. And here we are, inviting each other in to our homes without any scrutiny. Only the verification of a love for music and gear. 
If a tree falls in the forest…
I’ve assembled a relatively top notch system that only I have listened to. I would really like to have someone else hear it to share and confirm my experience. I live on Long Island close to New York City. Any suggestions?