How to find local audiophiles

I was out of this world for a long time-raising kids, working too much, etc. Made do with a modest headphone setup.  When I got back in 10-12 years ago, all the high end stores had disappeared. We have one store that is really a HT store, but sells MC-Anthem-Paradigm-that's it. That's too bad. 

I used to bond with a few guys at my local HE store but it closed 10 years ago and the guys that I met moved to sunnier climates.  I live in Chicago land and there still are some boutique places but they are at least 45 minutes away and have limited hours. 
  It’s a lonely hobby as others noted.

  Perhaps that could be a new forum category-find local audiophiles in your area-but unfortunately I see a lot of potential for scammers and worse in that scenario 

Like others I have met guys (no surprise we’re all guys) buying and selling used equipment.  I’ve connected with a few local guys online and have had offers to listen to their systems but I haven’t taken them up on their offers yet.  I’m fine connecting online on sites like this.  So, how’s everyone doing this morning?  

I’m am new on here. I have been an Audiophile since the early 80’s. 
I started this wonderful journey when my late Father was an Electronic junkie and frequent Laffeyette electronics. I got my first fix listening to an amplifier in that store. The song was Nights in white satin. 
Music and this hobby mean the world to me and I really don’t have many friends whom share the same passion. I love reading the post on this site and feel I belong. 
 

cheers from Philly. 

Yes music calms the savage beast.there are some smart audiophile that chime in on this site and some humor.i never had time for this now glad my life has allowed it now enjoy the company and the music.