Help me find my ideal Stereo Integrated Amp

+1 to @jomonhifi for the Diablo recommendation, that will sound fantastic.  Unfortunately, that path can be a bit of a Snipe hunt because there aren't very many 300s that come up used.  Another consideration would be a new Hegel H400 (no phono stage) and add the Hegel V10 phone stage, all in new for $8700.  I have a lot of friends with very high end vinyl rigs and they love the sound and flexibility of the Hegel phono stage.  Keep in mind that most built in phono stages are more of a convenience than a critical listening path.  Good luck and cheers. 

Thank you for the Lyngdorf tdia3400 recommendation, it has everything I am looking for. My short list currently stands as: 
1A. NAD M33

1B. Lyngdorf tdia3400

2. ARCAM SA45 (a bit less power than I am looking for, but worth looking into I think)

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You might want to take a look at Advance Paris X-i1100 integrated amplifier. I think it checks most of the boxes that you're looking for. Good luck on your search mate.

+1 on Anthem STR integrated.

My son has one and it’s great sound with very good DAC and phono pre. He streams from a node but uses the digital out b/c he prefers the Anthem’s DAC. Has a boatload of digital inputs and RCA XLR analog. Around half your budget but Stereophile Class A. Easy to set up and use. Worth a listen.