I agree with all you say above, but I just wanted to point out that increasing (what I thought was EL but my in fact be P2S) from 222mm to 225mm has little effect on effective mass, which of course has nothing to do with alignment per se. If we are actually talking about P2S, then the net effect on effective mass of the commensurate increase in EL would be even less than 2%. But for EL, if effective mass was 20g at 222mm, it would be ~20.4g at 225mm. (This is very inexact, just comparing the square of the two numbers, which is directly proportional to effective mass.)
Looking back on my nearly 50 years in this hobby, I would unashamedly say that there are some things I did wrong for 40 of those years, some other things that I did wrong for 30 years, and some more unknown things that I am doing wrong even now. (Not speaking only of tonearm alignment.) For the uninitiated or newbies, they should know it's a marathon, not a sprint to get to audio Nirvana. But such is our capacity for self delusion that one can enjoy the hobby from the get-go, just keep an open mind and hope to get better at it.