Not sure why you would use a Y connector in your set-up?
At a minimum an electronic crossover will have 2 inputs and 4 outputs. Every powered sub that I have seen have both a left and a right input. You would connect your preamp outputs to the crossover inputs, then 2 of the crossover outputs to the sub inputs and the other 2 crossovers outputs to your main amps.
This will give you a little more overall output SPL, but the 80Hz crossover point may still be too low to get the SPL you want.