That's true, strictly speaking. So what? There's no sense in allowing unattainable perfection to be the enemy of the good.
The only difference between one system to another is they all sound different.
No, some sound better. Some sound much, much better. Some sound worse.
... unless you were in the recording studio at the time the recording was layed down to tape, how are you supposed to know how it was intended to sound? You can’t....
You most certainly can if you make your own recordings. That was actually rather common in the early days of audio.