Calvin
You obsesses over this stuff to much.
The Internet tends to promote some online rudeness. It isn’t unique to audiophilia. And then yes, audiophiles tend to be imo a bit grumpy. We like to sit and listen and this tends to be a solitary activity that doesn’t welcome interruptions.
There is a lot of subjectivity -I think A sounds better than B- which tends to promote unresolvable bickering . And there tends to be a lot of envy in terms of the levels that people can spend.
Given all of the above this is a reasonably civil site.
Personally I thank you for dropping the all caps in your thread titles. All caps tend to fire my adrenal glands