Disagreements and Conflicts between Audiophiles have we lost our brotherhood and maturity?

For the most part, the people you are referring to are not audiophiles. Some people hate the concept of high end audio so much, they take time out of their lives to hate it. How do you debate someone like this? You can't. Its not a level playing field. When it comes to audio components, someone like you can be skeptical in a healthy way because you're just after the truth. Once you have it figured out, you take what you learned and apply it in any way it helps you.

The haters can't do that because they're not after the truth. They don't WANT the high end gear to make a difference. You can't compete with that and its why these debates never end. For them, its about emotions, not audio equipment.   

"@052rc now you preaching.  Listen I started out cheap as hell. Yup I have taken this high end gear a bit far but on a Friday after a long week it puts me in heaven and I’m glad I have what I have. Some do hate the high end and the fact that some of us spent way too much for nothing in their eyes but some people like cars and houses. I like audio. I like it at the level I’m at. I’m happy and I’m happy for those who didn’t spend as much because it’s up to you to like what you have and be happy. Most of us will never hear each others system."

If you think I'm preaching then you're directly contributing to the problem that you started the thread for. Can you quote 1 word out of my post that speaks against anyone that starts out, or ends up with budget gear? I stand by every word of it. If you would rather be a drama queen, than ask me to clarify something, that's on you. 

When you start a conversation like this, its your job to control it. If you can't be bothered to read and understand the comments that you asked for, don't start the thread.