@jrcotner , I probably do everything backwards myself. About 30 years ago I had a pair of pretty cheap NHT speakers (that I actually liked) and then I bought my first tube amp to pair them with and I liked them (the speakers) even more. Then I bought a pair of B&Ws I REALLY liked with that first tube amp. Down the road I have had a couple of more tube amps, but I still have those B&Ws.
My thought was that it's easier to get an amp and take it to various stereo places to try out speakers than drag speakers around to try out amps.
I think what would be ideal is if you could find a way to audition both the electronics and the speakers in your home. What I will say about CaryDirect, is that they advertise that they will allow an audition period (without going to their site, I think it is either 30 or 60 days) with no strings (except shipping) attached. And that is if you do not order any upgrades with the equipment from CaryDirect.
Music Direct also offers an audition period that I think is 60 days.
I actually own a couple of Cary pieces in my system--an amp from the Dennis Had days and a preamp from the "new" Cary. The customer service/tech support isn't anywhere close to being as good now than it was in the Dennis had days, but I still like the product.