You have a great system...I'd try a few phono preamps...what you're missing maybe in the phono stage based on your descriptors...any my experience with the VKP10SE vs the Nagra.
On your list, I'd put"
Nagra VPS/VFS (VFS add on a must)
ARC Ref 2
Boulder 1008 (since you have XLR input cable..you might really like this one, I almost bought this stage - but had to switch cables to...)
Allnic H3000
I bet I am missing a few...just listing the ones I have heard and enjoy...
If want to stick with the cartridge route...The Lyra's are what I use and should help you on your criteria also...
On your list, I'd put"
Nagra VPS/VFS (VFS add on a must)
ARC Ref 2
Boulder 1008 (since you have XLR input cable..you might really like this one, I almost bought this stage - but had to switch cables to...)
Allnic H3000
I bet I am missing a few...just listing the ones I have heard and enjoy...
If want to stick with the cartridge route...The Lyra's are what I use and should help you on your criteria also...