Asa, I'm sorry it's so exasperating having to deal with us common people, but to your credit you make a sincere effort. If I can make a suggestion, take the time to list your system(s). It will help many of us to understand what is possibly at the outer limits of audiophilia.
One last point, this thing that we do is supposed to be fun. Are you having fun?
One last point, this thing that we do is supposed to be fun. Are you having fun?