@lordmelton
I couldn’t agree more (on a side note, part of my post was perhaps unclear; my intent in pinging you was to say that booze, hookers and blow sure seemed like a pretty good salve to @kennyc ’s dismissive, passive-agressive, classist post).
As always, it’s complicated. Admittedly some "naysayers" are idiots - the coat-hanger-as-speaker-cables type. Or the tag team of cretins I once had a fight with on ASR, who insisted that 192k was all the resolution anyone needed and Spotify sounds great and just fine because they use ogg vorbis.
On the other end, evidence shows unambiguously that favorite audiophile amulets and gris-gris, such as $3500 network switches and $500 cat6 patch cables, are utterly useless at improving sound quality.
However, they might be beautifully made and look great. I don’t begrudge anyone for not wanting a cheap-looking plastic Ethernet switch in their listening room, even if it is functionally and sonically identical to the $3,500 one in every respect (do replace the cheap one’s SMPS though).
And it chafes when some schmos start braying about what a stunning difference their audiophile switch makes... better than a new amp... You know.
Intelligent and well-informed audiophiles of the sort you’re referring to will usually admit - privately - that anything in the TCP path is largely immaterial to sound quality. Does that make them naysayers? Like I said, it’s complicated.
At the end of the day, I respect folks who put in the time and effort. You talk about cars, I respect the guy who dailies a beat-up, 200,000-mile flat-floor E-type that he fixes himself, but I don’t particularly care for the retired orthodontist who throws money at some guy to build him a Outlaw 356 he’ll drive 50 miles then list on BaT.