@itsjustme is absolutely right about how the loading resistor works. This is easy to see if you magnify the effect. Imagine a transistor across the signal line and ground, turning off and on. Then the signal would be grounded when the transistor was on, and unchanged when the transistor was off. Imagine this happening really fast, and you can imagine how distorted the sound would be.
I demonstrated the ’resistor effect’ to a highly expert electronics designer, who didn’t really believe that resistors could make a significant difference. I installed several different types of resistor in a selector switch, and he heard the differences as clearly as I did. Then he said, "Now, tell me what you really did." When I showed him the circuit, he was converted.
Bottom line: the most expensive MILSPEC at $40 sounded worst, the cheapest sounded second best. Best of all, by a considerable margin, was a Vishay resistor from the VAR series (aka Z-foil). These are the so-called ’nude Vishay’ resistors, so called because they are sold without the usual layers of guarding and insulating material. The resistors sound exceptionally clear and without coloration. I use NOTHING ELSE in my DIY preamp and amps. Even the volume control consists of a selector switch and 60 odd Vishay VAR resistors.
The downside is that they are VERY fragile. Upside: simply the best. Also sold as a TXCC product IIRC.
Good luck!.