Ben, your priorities seem spot on to me -- focus on home and hearth first. We all enjoy your musical insights and the breadth of knowledge that you have, but please don't feel anxious that other things are getting in the way of you sharing that with us right now.
I have a number of managers reporting to me. The other day, one of the best told me that she is constantly worried about her ability to manage. The managers who aren't worried are not doing as well. It seems to me that the very best, in anything, are internally driven and constantly strive toward the next level. Ben, I'd wager that even if everyone in Audiogon were to write you a note, you'd still worry about not posting as much as you'd like. But, speaking for myself, I'd encourage you not to let this prey on your mind right now.
Once you've moved and you're settled, please do let it prey on your mind because we all want to hear from you ;-)