Pursuing high end audio is a very complex and ambiguous process. It requires successfully identifying the sound you like, sifting through marketing hype, evaluating equipment for sound, carefully choosing for the sound you want.
It is easy to get off track and follow marketing hype, poor reviews, other’s opinions.
I recommend, going and listening to live acoustic music. Apply your technical listening skills to characterize what you hear. Then go to high end shops and do general listing sessions to identify the kind of gear that is sounding what real music sounds like. Then read reviews of this equipment: Absolute Sound, Stereophile, and HIFI+ only. Do not read any of the other mags. Not that this mags aren’t infallible but they are relatively neutral. Then you need to make the correlation between what you hear from components and what reviewers say. Do not read marketing material on any components... it is completely unhelpful, as is the ASR site.
You need to use your ears to make the choices.
This is not a pursuit that is easy. But incredibly rewarding when you successfully navigate the many obstacles.
If you are not good at this analysis. Then find yourself a dealer that will carefully help you navigate all the alternatives. You have to interview and be interviewed by dealers to find one that gets you and what you are looking for and you get. There are actually many... but the ones simply out to sell give all a bad name. Typical medium sized shops, seek out the owner. Tell the story you posted. Find one that wants to be your guide.
Over the last fifty years I have slowly added a tubed piece of equipment after another until all my equipment is tubed. You can see my systems under my UserID. Tubed equipment took a hit in the '80s and has staged resergence since then because of its natural an musical sound.