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About Lugnut -- Patrick Malone

Many of us have come to know Patrick Malone (Lugnut) as a friendly, helpful, knowledgeable and kind individual. He is a frequent and enthusiastic contributor to our analog discussion forum. He has initiated only 17 threads, but responded to 559 threads. I would guess that many, if not most, of us can recall a time when Pat replied with helpful advice to a question we posted or helped us track down a rare recording. I have come to love Pat as a friend, and to respect him as a man, and I suspect many of you share those feelings.

Today I write to share difficult news with you. Pat has been diagnosed with an aggressive stomach cancer. It has yet to be determined whether surgery will even be worth it. If surgery is performed, most or all of the stomach will be removed, and Pat would face a difficult and long post-op period in the hospital. The medical course is still uncertain, but will be determined soon. Whatever is decided, it will not be easy or pleasant.

Something may be planned in the future to assist the family. For now, Pat could use some of the friendship he so often and willingly showed us. You can email Pat at: lugnut50@msn.com. You can also mail cards, letters ... or whatever. You may email me for Pat's mailing address. My email is: pfrumkin1@comcast.net.

I hope to spend a few days with Pat in Idaho or Nebraska (from which he hails) soon. Between this news, my legal work, getting ready for family arriving for the holidays, Audio Intelligent, and trying to make plans to visit Pat, my head is spinning. If you email me and I don't respond, please understand that I am not ignoring you, but rather simply do not have time to reply.

Pat may or may not have time to respond to posts here, to emails, or to cards mailed to him. But he has asked me to convey to each and every one of you that he has cherished your friendship, your comradery, and sharing our common hobby on this great website.

As we prepare for our holiday season celebrations, and look forward to -- as we should -- enjoying this time of year, I ask that you keep Pat and his family in mind ... and softly offer up, in quiet moments in the still of night and early morning, prayers for Pat and his family. God bless.

Warmest regards to all,
Paul Frumkin
paul_frumkin
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Good luck! It is terrible to live with regret and "What if?". You'll be in my thoughts and I'd love it if you'd tell me how it goes for you.

Have a warm and happy holiday season, Everyone! Thanks for listening.
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nrchy
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Kirsten, thanks for being here. I have enjoyed your input. I'm sure it's hard for Barb in general, and specifically to maintain a presence here.

I got a kick out of thread earlier when you mentioned the Eleanor McEvoy. I wasn't sure if Pat liked the LP but appearently it went over okay.

I had the pleasure to talk with Pat a lot of times before his passing. We talked about Barb, and his concerns for her, and about his beloved daughters. He told me he was proud of you for your maturity and independence. I'm not trying to blow smoke, or whatever since I doubt that I will ever meet you, but I want to be sure you know what he shared with me.

All of us take regrets to our graves, but we also have a heart full of things about which we take a lot of pride and joy.

Pat took pride in the fact of who you are.

PS and I'm glad you're here sharing with us.
jsonic
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Dear Barb and Kirsten and all of the Malone extended family,

I hope you all have a Merry Christmas although I imagine this holiday will be especially hard. Pat is now part of the light in the star on our Xmas trees. May he forever shine. Thank you for letting us celebrate his life and passing.

All good things,

J.SONIC
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jadem6
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with the arrival of Christmas eve, I tend to look to my blessings and the people who have entered my life over the past year. This has been a bitter sweet year. I have found two local audio friends, and met quite a few e-friends. I was fortunate enough to re-discover my extended family this summer as we had a family reunion for the first time in 25 years.

My family and my local friends continue to be my purpose to live, and I was lucky enough to add another important piece to my life. I am spending four hours a week volunteering in the Architectural drafting program at the high school(the same program that I got my start)

No one has influenced 2005 as greatly as Pat, Barb and now Kirsten. My faith has always been strong, but Pat was witness to the love we all share within our souls. I know this is hard Barb, you do not walk it alone however. So much love and honesty was discovered from your selfless journey. In reflection of 2005, your family has no higher place in my heart. I love you Bard, Kirsten and Pat. May Pat's love encompass us all this holiday, for in 2005, Pat is home. His spirit will live forever in our heart, and his love is in our souls.

Thank you Pat for an amazing year!

jd
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boa2
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We wish you all a wonderful holiday. Barb, thank you for the card & the photos. Can't wait for your visit. Kirsten, we're so fortunate that you have joined this conversation. And Pat, I'm wearing your t-shirt, buddy.

Howard
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