Is this how a Subwoofer Crossover is supposed to work?

1. At the top your list must be to deploy a single solution to control system volume you’ve been presented w/one or more to date. 

2. Either
  a. replace your existing subs or
  b. find an external XO* w/some DSP to aid in room integration 
*DBX Drive Rack PA 3 - way or PX - 2 way

I realize I committed a sin suggesting DSP in this system. I’m sure others will have better ideas. 
The “admission $”, used, is insignificant compared to what you have spent so far. If my solution sets you back instead of move you forward, you’ll have little trouble selling it.  
BTW I use 3 DRPAs and 1 DRPX to tri-amp 3/5 channels & integrate 4/5 subs into my 5.5 HT. From adding the first DRPA to the DRPX, my system moved forward every time. While your doin’ 2Ch VS HT & on a different level to boot, I’m satisfied for the moment... But that is for another day. 
Happy New Year and tweaking

If you are using line level input try using speaker level input if it is available on your subs.

I’ve spent the last several weeks attempting to integrate 3 separate subwoofers into my listen room along with my Moab speakers. From what I understand, an external crossover unit like the JL Audio CR-1 is essential to getting accurate time alignment between subs and main speakers. This essentially is a two system where everything above 90hz, for example, goes to the main speakers, and everything below 90hz is handled exclusively by sub(s). I don’t have such a unit and simply used several practical techniques to blend subs as well I could with my Moabs. If I can add anything to this thread it’s that integrating multiple subs can be extremely beneficial. And yes adding subs with the Moab has dramatically improved my low frequency room response, bass depth, sharpness and overall system accuracy. All the best. 

Happy New Year to all.

I could be wrong, but it looks like you are running 2 subs in parallel with 2 mains (ie, mains are full-signal; subs are supposedly filtered out above the crossover frequency).

If I'm correct, the single most assured/competent resolution would be a good electronic crossover. I use the Marchand XM66 with variable crossover frequency. Slopes on the high- and low-pass crossovers are 24 dB/octave and the crossover "hump" (overlap) can be precisely dialed in. This is a very transparent, analog means to take a single RCA/single-ended input (from preamp) and split it into 2 output RCA pairs, one going to the subs (L goes to one powered sub, R goes to the other powered); and the other going to the amplifier that drives the main speakers.

It totally works. 

Again, thanks to those of you that are providing constructive input.

1) I've put the system back together, moving one sub to a different location and setting phase and crossover frequencies individually for each sub.  I am still using the DAC to provide fine tuning of volume with it connected by XLR inputs to the subs and by RCA to the tube amp, but now that I have a better understanding of what is going on the volume on the tube amp is set higher and the volume on the DAC is lower which helps offset the 7 dB gain of the XLR inputs vs RCA.  You can see a chart here. NOTE this was measured before adjusting Amp volume up and DAC volume down so the low end bass response isn't actually exaggerated in the system.

https://www.dropbox.com/s/j5a418zmk99zqbu/Moabs%20with%20Starke%20Subs%20Green%2C%20without%20Orange...

Adding the subs provides significant low end extension and a slightly smoother response.  I have significant room nodes at 61, 77, and 99 Hz with steep 10-15 dB valleys that I'm not sure what to do about.  The subs don't help with that and moving the Moabs around hasn't done much either.  I don't hear them so that is good.  Any suggestions about smoothing those room nodes?  I've tried a couple of rockwool panels without much impact.

2) Active crossovers or DSP all seem like good suggestions but things that I would explore at a later time.  I do use the EQ in Roon to adjust for some things but I haven't figured out how to use REW to measure the changes Roon makes.

3) My assumption has been using the DAC to control volume is fine and that there is no change in signal quality with volume set at 100 vs 60. Anybody have any idea if that is true?

4)  mijostyn's idea of subwoofer placement on either side of the speakers is interesting but, as many people do, I have my tube amp right in the middle.  It is on springs and isolation pads etc. etc. but it seems risky to have a tube amp in between, and close to, subwoofers.  Thoughts?

In conclusion, mostly I've roundtripped to where I started.  The system sounds great, the subwoofers extend the bass and increase low end impact without sounding exaggerated or noticeable.  At some point in the future I may explore active crossovers or DSP but not now.  I would still love to see measurements for how changing the crossover frequency works on a Rel or other high end subwoofer.