Why are audiophiles perceived as being wackos?


I have been pursuing this wonderful hobby of high end stereo equipment and music for almost 30 years. I do consider myself a passionate audiophile who loves to listen to music on a daily basis. The reason for this post is because it has been my experience that the great majority of people who do not pursue this hobby think of audiophiles as being wackos/screwballs because of the amount of time, money, and passion they put towards their systems. I find it very interesting that individuals who spend tremendous amounts of money and time pursuing esoteric tastes such as wines, watches, coins, etc, are considered connoisseurs or aficionados with a serious passion that is often respected even if it is not the other person's cup of tea. Another example would be people who love high end cars/boats who read all the magazines, go to the shows and invest large sums of money to purchase and tweak their cars or boats to get the last bit of ultimate performance out of their prized possessions. So I don't believe the negative viewpoint towards passionate audiophiles revolves around the amount of money that they can invest in their equipment. So my question for all you GON members is what would be your explanation for people outside our hobby having such a negative or condescending attitude towards our passion, where they infrequently would not have the same attitude towards other people's hobbies and passionate but unique pursuits? It would be a pleasure to hear about your experiences and what your explanation would be for this phenomena towards our hobby.
teajay
Frank, Have you read "The Rules" - (of) Velominati? Similar could be put to Audiophilia.
Just scrolled through listing photos of 24 homes of $million+ without seeing a single pair of high end speakers. A couple dedicated theaters that got a photo or two as opposed to 5-10 of the spa bathroom and 25 of the kitchen. I've attended Parade of Homes for years in many cities and, again, have never seen a decent audio system-lots of whole house, ceiling mounted speakers though.  I was asked by the listing agent and a stager to remove my system the two times I've sold a home. I declined. My practice with any move has been the stereo is the last thing out of the place I'm exiting and the first thing set up in the new place. Yup, I've ended up sleeping on the floor for a night or two at times.
wideload ...

I spent 40 years in the residential real estate business. That took me into thousands, maybe even tens of thousands of homes. I was always astounded by how many homes had no music and no books. Big-screen TVs, sure, but almost 100% had no music, and most had no books.

Frank