i want to be knocked out of my chair and for my wife to finally say "yeh that sounds better, so what". i do not mean an exagerated bottom end but to be real acurate enjoyable fantastic sound!
To be knocked out of your chair when your previous speaker is the B&W 800d simply ain't gonna happen in terms of sound quality.
{Magico mini or V3} i found the sound to be a little not there, held back. if this is detailed not for me.
All I can suggest is you try to audition some high end active speakers - perhaps this will get you that extra edge you are looking for - that extra level of detail, clarity, precise bass and blistering dynamics.
However, given where you are starting from - you simply ain't gonna be knocked out of your chair - no way no how.
A complete custom room design/rebuild by a pro like Rives is probably your only ticket to the next level...
...just two cents.