You're not really serious unless while sitting in your dedicated listening room trying to enjoy the music, you can't, due to the fact that your mind is racing whilst considering that next big ticket item that you MUST have to tweak a miniscule amount more out of what you already have, and what you need to sell off(children, wife, dog,car) to pay for it.
Of course you really are serious if you relate to all the responses in this post and don't find them humours, just statements of fact!!!!!!!!!!!! :)