larsman,
I agree with you. Whether or not we are discussing the technical or emotional aspects of music, it is after all this, music.
It is a really good question that is well worth the discussion.
The one problem that I have with most music is when it gets 'stuck' in my head and won't go away. It is no longer enjoyable after hours of this, but rather a weed. The best that I can do about it is try and change the song to something else to replace it in the loop. Of course, now it won't go away.