Keis, I agree with both your points but especially your first. Many people who love music and go to live performances at every opportunity simply don't regularly listen to music at home. My wife and I play music all the time! Maybe it's a "chicken or egg" and people would listen more if their sound was better ... personally, I think that the majority of people simply don't want music as a priority in their lives. For those who do, only a portion will take the time to sift through the hype and audition great equipment.
Your last sentence is also a killer though: "You don't get girls (or guys) with Krell".
Your last sentence is also a killer though: "You don't get girls (or guys) with Krell".