The connection of the REL Neutrik connector should not present a difficult load to the amp. It is a 150k input, it should not cause the amp to clip. The emo guy does not know what the hell he is talking about.
If it is a fully balanced differential amp you must connect the Neutrik with a separate ground to the chassis, you can not attach the (-) signal wire to ground.
I would connect just the subs while you are troubleshooting
If it is a fully balanced differential amp you must connect the Neutrik with a separate ground to the chassis, you can not attach the (-) signal wire to ground.
I would connect just the subs while you are troubleshooting