I was in a similar state as you just three weeks ago. When B&K lowered the price on the Ref50, it was a no brainer. I'm running Krell amps with full range Thiel speakers for the front three and a Parasound amp with Merlin full range speakers for the surrounds. I also just got the Marantz
universal player DV-8400. I recommend the Ref 50. For the
price/performance ratio, it can't be beat! I was in the hunt (all top end pre/pros) for the Lexicon, Classe, Rotel, Anthem, Krell showcase, etc. Now, I sit back and enjoy my music like never before in both discrete and matrixed surround. Needless to say, with your nice amp and speaker set-up, your player needs to match in terms of performance. I highly recommend the Marantz DV-8400. If it's shiny and 5" in diameter, no matter what type of medium, it will play it cleanly. I was about to get the Denon 2900 instead, but the Marantz was much better for audio. Good luck in your pursuit...