Most of the guys who are focusing on the amp/speaker interface have the correct approach here, it really has to be considered as a single purchase, or at least figured into the equation. That being said don't let them scare you away with some of the numbers they throw around. You MAY find yourself limited by volume and dymamics but you won't be limited musically. Currently I'm running a 2a3 with a kestral hotrod at 89 dbw, room size 11x16. This is not a recommend combo but within it's limits it delivers superb music and is superior to every high powered tube push pull and solid state amp i've had. If you have a much larger room, and or need high volume symphonic/rock - look elsewhere. Otherwise You have to adjust your expectations accordingly and give it a try. I would personally recommend something like the Wright mono 8's or Don garbers x3, (both 300b's) at about $1800. Then you'll want something 92dbw or better for speakers with flat/highish impedences. Fortunately, more manufacturers are addressing high senstivity issues (coincident) and bringing new product to market. A radio shack spl meter is a good way to get a handle on how loud you listen to music and what you realistically can achieve with your SET.
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