YUP,Todlers and av stuff don't mix well.Also doug,todlers LOVE to push on the speaker cones.Back to the Ent.cntr. It will impact your.sound stage depth. I would go for one of them big suckers with closeable wooden doors ,and a hook & eye,up high.Kids explore,it is what they do,and they are not very teachable til---Around 45 I guess.I have a 60in rr proj,and it is about the size of an ent.ctr.56 h 53w 26deep.My speakers are off to ea.side.So I have decent horizontal imaging but little or no stage depth.Well I don't have two rooms,sounds like you don't either,so we are stuck.I could get one of them 10grand projectors and have only a screen.I have my speakers about 57 from the back wall.Life forces compromises,but with a todler I'd opt for the closeable door.
Where do you put your TV/equipment?
Most armoire & entertainment centers are big, tall, flat-sided things that sit between the main speakers--not good for your image! I want an open-architecture stand, but I have a soon to crawl kiddo who would use it as a jungle gym! So what do I put my TV and gear on/in to keep it out of reach and not destroy the image I work so hard to get?!