Check out speakers like a Martin Logan's with a Folded Motion Tweeter.
I have a pair of ML 15i and they seems to keep the hi frequencies more noticeable as compared to a soft dome tweeter. Electrostatic and Magnepans speakers will also be an improvement in this area.
I too wear the Jabra Enhance Select H.A. and it is hard to dial them in while listening to music. I just upgraded to the new Select 300 and for me they sound better overall YMMV.