"So back to square one. Do I but a new/used AVR or a pre/pro and use my Rotel amp? I see a few Integra pre/pros on the board for sale 9.8 and 9.9 that have me intrigued. What do you think? They are both a few years old, so what new formats would I be missing out on? I've convinced the wife to up the buy in since the POS experience is frustrating her too. So I think I'm in the $600-$800 range now."
Sorry about your bad experience with your Onkyo TX-NR509. I have used an Onkyo TX-SR705 for over 5 years with zero issues at all. With that said, most of the time I used it as a pre/pro with a 200w/ch multichannel amp so never any power issues. It now resides in my bedroom system with a 5.1 satellite speaker system that does not tax the amps at all. I think a used Onkyo/Integra pre-pro is an excellent choice with your Rotel. From my understanding, these pre-pros are excellent performers and reliable.
Bill
Sorry about your bad experience with your Onkyo TX-NR509. I have used an Onkyo TX-SR705 for over 5 years with zero issues at all. With that said, most of the time I used it as a pre/pro with a 200w/ch multichannel amp so never any power issues. It now resides in my bedroom system with a 5.1 satellite speaker system that does not tax the amps at all. I think a used Onkyo/Integra pre-pro is an excellent choice with your Rotel. From my understanding, these pre-pros are excellent performers and reliable.
Bill