I do not know about you, but I can not afford the time, effort and care not to spend the money going through 10 cartridges to get to one good one. There are so many fine cartridges you can depend on. If you want a cantilever hanging out in the breeze get a Lyra, Clearaudio or Verismo. It made me nervous for a while but I got use to it. Always put your stylus guard on before you do anything.
I never got a VDH because the tolerances of the ones I have seen and the pictures I have looked at are uniformly terrible, which is why people say they all sound different.