Thank you all for very informative and hilarious replies. My speakers are very directional and semi-horny so I'm guessing I'm already at a disadvantage there. They absolutely disappear in the sweet spot. I'll probably end up doing the one in the sweet spot and 2 seats directly behind if the super toe-in method doesn't work.
Speaker set up for more than 1 person
I have my system set up perfectly for a single person sweet spot. Near field about 9 feet from my speakers. But if I move even slightly off center the soundstage moves and one of the speakers dominates. If I have a couple friends over how can I arrange my speakers so we can all get a good soundstage with centered imaging? Move my speakers closer together?