Very careful placement of the absorption panels is required, as well as using the correct size. Too much absorption can definitely kill the sound's liveliness.
Re the sound from the rear - it's not even close to the sound from the front. If for no other reason, think of how you have the panels configured. That is backwards - or at least very different - from what you chose for the best sound from your seat.
Maybe it's close to the same sound if the speakers are pointed straight ahead, but who does that? Multiple panels per channel (Tympanis, 30.7) can be worse as the the time and phase differences are reversed.
When I worked at Magnepan as Natl. Sales Mgr., ( I wrote the set-up manuals for T-1D, MG-1 & MG-2A), I can guarantee you that we did not want to disperse the highly colored reflected sound. Doesn't mean that in some cases/installations it might not be preferred, however.