I was a rogue guy. I had an old sixty-six from the late 90s. That was a great sounding amp. When I started on my big upgrades a few years back I went with an RP-1. It sounded so much better and I thought to myself, an RP-7 must be even better so I got one. It was crystal clear but somewhat sterile. No tubey goodness at all. I rolled tubes extensively and it got better but never where I really wanted. I read a lot about the don Sachs line stages so I got my hands on one of those and I felt as if nirvana had been reached, but like you, I needed a balance control and the Sachs didn't really have that. What it did have, and what I read a fair bit about after enjoying it, was 6sn7 tubes. I went on a search for preamps with that tube type. There are not ultimately that many: Cary, atma-sphere, modwright, vac, maybe a couple others. It was easy to get my hands on a modwright ls100 and it does have a balance knob that you can turn on and off. This has been where I've landed. It sounded great out of the box and with some NOS RCA tubes it it sounds even better. The Music Room carries them so you can buy it and try it and if you don't like it, return it.
If I were to upgrade again I'd strongly consider an atma-sphere as I ended up getting some used MA-1 amps and they made maybe the largest difference in sound other than my analog rig or speakers.