@viber6 and @terraplane8bob I am an amateur choral singer and recording engineer who has done both at venues such as Disney Hall, Soroya (CSUN) and Royce Hall (UCLA). I was also a classical music reviewer at UCLA (1970s). I have over 48.500 LPs/CD/78s.
Performing with live orchestras, I never get the front sound/full picture but do get tremendous pure direct sound from the percussion, rear strings, horns and some woodwinds depending on my position at the rear.
My audio system rarely reproduces that sound but does reproduce the excitement of the performances. Most of my recordings are studio rather than orchestral halls (which I am thankful for as too many modern recordings are drenched in reverb/distant sounding).
For home listening, I prefer a less reverberant and more direct sound. That also provides greater body to instruments and voices. For me, performance comes before sonic delights. I have several friends with high end sounding audio systems who don't listen to mono recordings, stick to either analog or digital only. They are missing out on great performances. Funny how they enjoy my alternative older mono & analog and newer digital recordings on my audio system but don't choose it for their listening.
For orchestral hall listening, while several friends prefer front row, especially for chamber works, I prefer row 10 generally. As a music reviewer, I regularly traded away my front row tickets at Royce to for 10th row seats So, every listener has their preference. At the opera, (400+ Dorothy Chandler performances), the closer I get the better, both visually and sonically, up to the 10th row. Too far forward degrades both.