For the sand, look for Silica. It’s a non-organic man-made product used in sand blasting. It comes in many grades (the size of each particle), from powder-fine to somewhat coarse. I used No.60 in my Bright Star Big Rocks, just the right grade imo. I found some at a local construction supply yard, less than ten bucks for a 50 lb. bag.
If I remember correctly, the Big Rock was about 4 inches deep for the biggest model, half that for the smallest.