I also have a room with very similar dimensions (13" and 11").
I don't think it is "too small", but I think you may have a "boomy" bass if you are not care. Some kind of bass trap is probably needed. Otherwise, a large overstuffed fabric sofa may help. Book shelves are great diffusors - I have the left and right wall covered with books. You should not try to cover every surface with acoustic foam. If you do, your room will end up sounding too "dead" Instead a good mix of absorption and diffusion will give you better results.
Specific room treatments is very dependant on your particular room. Without knowing your layout and what else you intend to have in the room (eg furniture, etc), it is difficult to give more than general suggestions. In general, I would suggest you try to unclutter the front, ie projector onto a screen works better than a large TV in front.
For equipment, I use 5 identical hi-end mini-monitors. The LCR are stand mounted while the surr. are wall mounted. All set to "small". The power amp I'm using is an overkill for these speakers, so the control is very tight. With some acoustic treatment and careful speaker placement, I do not have a boom problem. I had the same set up in a large room (20" by 16"), it did sound better (bigger!), but I think a small room is highly "do-able".
I am still looking for a subwoofer that will not overwhelm the room. I agree with Gunbei that anything bigger than 12" would probably be too much. A single 10" is probably more than sufficient for most people/taste. Some may suggest that you can lose the sub in such a small room. I disgree, the nature of HT track is too punishing for normal speakers alone. You will need the dynamic ability and power of a good (does not have to be big) sub for the low freq.
Good luck !