find and read the thread.....it's here somewhere, the subject of which is caps and cap aging. Lifetime is addressed. Please read that carefully.
Speaker relay? I don't see how that part going South could damage speakers. They just won't turn ON. ...... OTOH, if the relay fails latched ON, you could get a startup pulse of DC to the speakers which could damage them.
Relays, being mechanical, are somewhat failure prone. In a 20 year old piece? If it is socketed, just replace it. Hardwired? ask a tech for cost. I'm honestly not sure how much damage such startup pulse could do to speakers, but it couldn't be good....just how bad?