You didn't mention what kind of amp you use. Have you considered an integrated amp? Sometimes they are a much better value. I was in your exact shoes 15 or so years ago and was looking to replace my preamp which sounded fine, but had not remote.
After looking for a preamp with a remote for a reasonable price, I ended up getting a lightly used Plinius 8200MKII (Class AB solid state). Still have it and it sounds great. I sold my old amp and preamp and the integrated ended up being less expensive. Also comes with an adjustable phono section which I used for a long time until I took the plunge for an external phono stage (Sutherland Insight LPS). Can't beat the Sutherland for quiet detailed sound, and great value. I know...it's solid state.....but the dead black sound is preferable to me over "warmth".
Plinius is not highly distributed in the US, but they are available. I think a new one that is based on the 8200MKII goes for around $4K, but you can get used or rebuilt 8200s for less than $2K.