RE: the question: ":Why do forum interactions become contentious". . .


I've just had a very unexpected and very unpleasant PM from a forum participant. 

He'd been suggesting I buy a certain component  and I told him politely that I didn't visualize that particular purchase fitting in with my long-range plans.  

His response was to accuse me of wasting everyone's time and to call me an "effing idiot" (except he spelled "effing" correctly). 

The great majority of interactions I've had here have been very enjoyable and recent input from
more experienced forum members has helped greatly in clarifying my plan for the next upgrade cycle. 

The thread on lesser-know Jazz has been great-- lots of participation and lots of terrific suggestions. 

Nevertheless, I've decided to take a break. 

Best regards,

Stuartk



stuartk

Showing 1 response by 8th-note

I get the topics email every day and I check in on this forum but I don't spend much time here. There seems to be a high level of dysfunctional interaction.

I have had a much better experience with the audio forums on Facebook. They are much more tightly moderated and a**holes are removed pretty quickly. I also like the structure better that allows you to efficiently respond to individual posts in a thread. The overall level of ego also seems to be less. People generally want to share information and help each other.

I used to have a recording studio and there were some recording forums that were as bad as Audiogon. Gearslutz was the best example. You could always depend on a few jerks mucking up any good discussion.

Audiogon is worth a quick scan every day and there are a few threads like Thiel Owners have been extremely valuable and constructive. I paw through the trash to find the occasional diamond and try not to waste too much time in the process.