Even after you go fully balanced, you can always keep a set of RCA>XLR cables around for those times when you have a source w/only RCA's. I use a set for my tuner.
Since you're using a CDP, I suggest wiring as follows: Pin 1 (ground) to the shell of the RCA and Pin 2 (+) to the center tip. Leave Pin 3 open.
If you have somebody make a cable for you, they should ask what type of application it's going to be used for.
I've had "standard" RCA>XLR cables (both Pins 1 & 3 to RCA ground) which resulted in distortion. Same thing when using adapters.
Not all CDP's will respond like this but mine did, so I made my own cables after finding out about the differences between transformer & digital based pieces, courtesy of Jon Risch.