Nikki:
I think I am going to side with side with you as far as the Dynaudio speaker package is concerned. But I may disagree with you as far as Rotel is concerned. I say that because he doesn't have to get their receiver per se. They also have a nice pre/pro that retails for about $1,500.00 (which I like very much), as well as a matching six channel amplifier for just $1,000.00. I think that combination has more than enough power to drive the Dynaudio combination you are talking about. The pre/pro also has the DTS-ES capability he is looking for. The Outlaw package that you have mentioned is also nice, and is worthy of consideration as well, but I think he should consider the Rotel package as well. Just my thoughts and my $.02 worth.
--Charles--