You name six different cartridges, none of which is "bad", and ask whether the Grace will stand up to them in SQ. I only know one person who may own all or most of the cartridges you already own, and that is Raul. So maybe Raul can offer his opinion. But even Raul can only offer an opinion based on his system and listening acumen, which is considerable. In the end, you have to decide. In my partially informed opinion, the Grace has a place in that group.
No, the Grace Ruby, even with the SS upgrade, is not my best cartridge. It's probably my favorite MM, but I own two MI types and at least one LOMC type that I would rate ahead of it, but we're talking about lofty regions of excellence. I really don't think in these terms. The Ruby/SS is among the 6-7 cartridges that I use, while maybe 15 others sit in a drawer.