The frequency response of the S40 is -2dB at 62Hz.
1) Check what the S40's response is at ~35Hz assuming 70Hz is ~0dB If not, find the closest ~0dB frequency on the S40 & check the loss 1octave lower. This will give you an idea of the slope (i.e. how many dBs are lost per octave on the S40)
2) Set the subs/xover's phase at 0 degrees, freq at recommended 60Hz and low-pass slope as per the S40 above. 3)Place the sub inbetween the spkrs for now. 4) Borrow an SPL meter and a test disk and play a reference 1kHz at a "normal" to low level on the s40 and keep the measurement. Likewise, play a 60Hz tone on the sub & adjust volume for a close spl reading. 4) Play the sub 1octave lower and check the reading. 5) Use yr xover to hi-pass yr spkrs at 60Hz or 30Hz whichever is better. Hi pas & low-pass slopes should be the same at this point. Try playing music -- a good recording of orchestral music if possible. 6) Start moving the sub front & back to get the "best" sonic integration. Then start playing around with phase.
Hopefully, you'll get somewhere:)
Caveats:
I assume the S40 are setup meticulously well. Otherwise, you must start by optimising s40 placement without the sub.
Also, bear in mind that the "sub" is used as a "woof".
Cheers