Bombaywalla,
Thanks for the thoughtful response and questions. I'll try to answer in order:
1) I really like the Vandies, but yes I got sick of looking at them. More than that though, after listening to other speakers (specifically the Audio Physic and Proac) I realized the Vandies shortcomings in terms of transparency and image focus.
2) I would say I more of a "laid back" speaker kind of guy.
3) I do like listening loud. Not all the time, but frequently will listen at fairly loud levels (ie: live)
4) My room is good sized, about 12' x 22' and a lot of flexibility in terms of placement.
5) In terms of comparing the speakers, I felt the Josephs were a little dry or thin sounding, but after some extended listening I warmed up to them. I like the Proac Future 1's the best of anything I've heard (I haven't heard a lot), but I think they are out of my price range. The Future .5's are a bit more affordable but just don't quite give the low end definition I like. I liked how the Virgos sounded as well, they seem warm, smooth and transparent, probably the most transparent of the bunch.
I guess the bottom line is there are a lot of speakers that I've not had the chance to listen to yet that get good reviews and might work. Names that come to mind are Coincident and Aerial and I'm sure there are many more. I'm just looking for some direction towards a synergistic combination with my existing equipment. My price range is probably $2500-4000.
Thanks again,
Scott