My wife finally got it


My dear spouse has never objected to my audio expenditures and has tolerated the hobby with an occasional "roll of her eyes". Last night, after dinner, I went into the music room, and put on an LP; as I do many evenings. It was the Sheffield Labs/Los Angeles Symphony/Eric Liensdorf Firebird.
My 5 year old daughter and our dog were in the room in front of a toasty fire, the lights were dimmed VERY low (I need to set the mood:)). I was completely immersed in the music. My wife was moving around the house, but mostly doing something in the adjacent family room. When the stylus hit the run-out groove at the end of side 2, she walked into the room and said: "That sounded better than ANY CD I have ever heard. That was beautiful!" Light dawns over Marblehead ladies and gentlemen! She followed up by saying: "Now I understand." We have been together for 10 years, and that is the first time her equipment comments have not been on the order of: "that was nice, but I can listen on the boombox in the kitchen". God, I LOVE that woman!
slipknot1

Showing 1 response by thedautch

Congratulations, my friend. Maybe there's no such thing as a perfect marriage, but it sounds like you and your wife took a dramatic step--she now loves something that you love! In many marriages, two people never take that step; they simply tolerate (at best) one another's hobbies.

Now...is there something SHE loves that maybe YOU can see the true, overarching, unabiding wisdom in? Imagine where your marriage could go then!