My last rodeo

Seems like the OP needs a new audio chain:

• server/streamer
• DAC
• preamp
• amp
• speakers
• cabling
• maybe power conditioning 

Decisions​​​​​​​:

1. tube vs SS
2. Separates vs integrated (preamp+amp). Integrates saves on casework and cabling, but less flexibility in upgrading vs separates.  Integrates built in DACs are often subpar to stand alone DACs since they are often built as an afterthought to a cost point, but a few integrates have good DACs.  Even fewer integrates have a built in streamer.

Starting from scratch, one can choose amp first then speakers, or speaker first then amp (which is my preference)

Both speaker and amp choices are highly subjective- there are many great sounding components, but few that would subjectively resonates with you (pulls you into the music).  So best to demo yourself to find what you like.  Check out high-end audio stores and audio shows like AXPONA.

Seat time first. Without your credit card, check or cash. Go listen to the best on offer and hear what is possible. Then figure out what you like, and why. References are good, but I’d listen to as wide a variety of music as possible to hear the man behind the curtain. Every system has some weaknesses. But the strengths often outweigh those, based on your ears. And you should save money by doing this as part of your personal "due diligence" to educate yourself as to your own preferences in today’s market. I didn’t look up where you are, but a plane flight is still cheaper than an expensive component or raft of them that takes you in the wrong direction. I express no preference. You can look up my system here, which represents where I’m at on one system; my other system is a vintage system that replicates what I ran in 1975-- based on the Quad Loudspeaker, also all tube, vinyl. 

But that’s my preference. Yeah, I can do digital and use it. Some of it sounds amazing. I’m still vinyl heavy but that’s the result of almost 60 years of buying LPs. Hit or miss. No one way. Have a riot. :)

@tburdwin As a forum member without too much activity but possibly a regular reader I typically post for individuals with this type of profile.

I would also like to suggest that you investigate if an audio club is functioning local to you or at least at a distance that can be covered to make a meeting or two.

An interaction with likeminded people with the shared interest, especially individuals without an interest in your intention to spend, will bring into your hobby a substantial amount of experiences to assist with how to consider structuring your new direction. There is only gain and absolutely nothing to lose, when being active in a social encounter with audio as the common theme. 

@whart I'm just back to this thread. I may have to fly. It's about an hour 1/2 drive to the Spokane airport. Any recommended dealers in Washington or Oregon? I might actually prefer to drive, not because I'm afraid, I hate the hastle and love to drive. I used to live in LA, Should have done it before I moved. 

@pindac I'd be lucky to find one conveniently close but you never know, I'll have to look. 

Thanks all